GREYHAIRLADYSPEAKSOUT

Life is full, faith is guiding, and love is worth the leap, especially when shared with laughter, connection, and grace.

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8

A Kiss Goodbye, A Hug Hello

I’ve always loved the idea of “launching” and “landing.” Starting the day with intention, love, and a little courage, and returning home with care, connection, and joy. Stepping back into the dating world feels a lot like that, launching into life fully, while dreaming of landing in love again.

I’ve actually lived this idea my whole life, from raising toddlers to watching them grow into adults. My kids have never had a single day without a goodbye kiss. Affection has always been my way of expressing love. In relationships, physical touch is definitely my love language; the simple yet powerful ability to say “I love you” through a hug, a kiss, or even just holding hands. I’m an affectionate woman, and that kind of connection isn’t optional for me, it’s part of the foundation for building something real and lasting.

Sometimes the simplest gestures such as an “I love you,” a hug, a smile, each carry the weight of a thousand prayers. And yes, I admit it, I may have been known to steal an extra hug or linger a second too long… okay, maybe two.

(“Let all that you do be done in love.” – 1 Corinthians 16:14)

The Fine Line in New Love

Here’s the tricky part about stepping back into dating: there’s such a fine line in new relationships. You don’t want to come across as needy or over-eager, but you also don’t want to invest your heart and time if the two of you aren’t on the same page.

At this stage in life, I want authenticity. I want depth. I want all of it or nothing. I’ve spent years making sacrifices to keep relationships alive, and while compromise has its place, I’ve learned that I can’t give up who I am or what I truly want. God teaches patience, but He also reminds us to protect our hearts wisely.

(“For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” – Ecclesiastes 3:1)

Playful aside: And if the leap involves a little laughter, a shared cup of coffee, or an unexpected adventure, I’m all in.

Life is Full, But Shared is Sweeter

I’m a woman with a full, vibrant life, interests, passions, and adventures that keep my days lively and full. From quiet mornings with a cup of coffee to spontaneous weekend getaways, from creative projects to volunteering, my life is rich with joy.

But here’s the thing I’ve realized: sharing life, the laughter, the hugs, the quiet moments with the right person would make it all even more meaningful. Someone who enjoys connection, conversation, playfulness, and a little flirtation, while trusting God’s guidance, would make this journey even richer.

Two hearts aligned in faith and joy can turn everyday moments into blessings.

(“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9)

Investing Wisely, Loving Fully

Getting back out there isn’t about filling a space, it’s about finding someone to share the fullness of life with. Someone who understands that love isn’t perfect, that we all carry a little baggage. Our pasts may be packed away, but they get unpacked when memories and holidays are appearing right in front of us. The real joy is figuring out how to meet each other’s needs while staying true to ourselves.

To laugh, to love, to land safely together at the end of each day… Love isn’t to be rushed. It’s to be nurtured with faith, laughter, and honesty; and maybe just maybe there’s a moment to sneak in a little wink along the way.

A Heart Open to Possibility

At the end of the day, stepping into the dating world again is as much about rediscovering yourself as it is about finding someone else. It’s about trusting that God has a plan, embracing the lessons of the past, and stepping forward with an open heart ready to laugh, love, and be fully known.

Life is meant to be lived boldly, tenderly, and with a little playful courage.

(“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6)